chances

Between earning for survival and making good money for a better lifestyle is a matter of choice. You can work hard for making tonne of money or decided to have a more relax working schedule but lesser income. Nobody is going to force you unless your own self. Of course if you are depressed to support your family or are motivated to do so by someone or objective in life you might want to work extra hard or else will reluctant to do so if a person without objective in life. For example, foreigners are here to make hard earn money is willing to work overtime or even during odd hour. I saw a group of Chinese ladies in the hospitality service scarified their holiday and lunch break for earning few dollars. To my amazing when confronted, their reasoning is working hard while you have the opportunities or you might be regretted later during difficult time as a chance which was provided and within grasping hand has not been used. We have always complained about lack of forthcoming chance but will never admit that a chance was bypassed due to our apathy attitude.

So, we have ourselves to blame and nobody else.